Please read comments before jumping to conclusions.
Talked to the teacher today, I was telling her my coat will be ready this week and I was happy because it is so cold here. She told me: "If he does it again, punch him." She understood why I mistaked it for a Korean culture thing as I stated to a response in the comments section.
I am not the type to need a man for anything. If I can't get it myself, I don't need it and it can wait till later. I am not so grateful that a man that is not my race, my race or any other race is paying attention to me. I got other stuff to do and I am enjoying my time in a beautiful country. I am jsut surprised at the attention I am getting, not because I am a black woman, but because I am no where near dressed like most of the women here and I get attention. I wear my jeans and t-shirt (when it is warm enough) and I am covered in two jackets maybe one with two shirts and the thermal shirt and pants underneath with my sneakers or boots (which make my feet ook huge but those bad boys are warm and I could care less). The other women are wearing heels and short skirts and tights with jewelry, make up and all that. Pretty much dressed to the nines, while I am going natural and warm and I am not rail thin. I have curves and they aren't going anywhere.
Crystal when are you getting here? We have so much eye candy to look upon. I need to buy a camera to show you what you are missing.
**END UPDATE 2**
Turns out it is not a Korean thing. He thought I was sexy.
I asked one of the teachers I work with and she was like "No, he shouldn't have done that. THat is sexual abuse. Next time tell him: Are you crazy?! (She made the motion to threaten to punch someone). She went on to explain with women it is Okay because it is like a joke, but with opposite sex no.
Short and sweet because I need to get up in about 5 hours.
Went to get coat made today.
Tailor said "Oh, Big size!" Then smiled.
At first I thought he was saying I was fat (I have lost almost 30lbs since I got here) then realized where he was looking (chest).
He measured me for my coat.
He measured my hips. "Oh, big bum" slapped my ass and called me "Very Sexy."
My coat will be ready in a week and I got a discount.
This is how my weekend started... I will post more if anything else happens.