There are an incredible amount of intelligent, strong, career-oriented, fun, interesting, beautiful women out there that have asked me several questions about wanting to date an Asian man but they don't know how to go about it. I think that it is great that you want to explore and get to know new people and different cultures. It takes an incredible amount of courage to try something new. If you are thinking about dating outside your race, do your best to be open-minded and willing to learn about each others' differences and similarities.
If you are attracted to an Asian man and are tired of waiting around for him to make the first move, today is your opportunity to step up and take the initiative. Most women think that if a man is interested in them, that the man should make the first move. That is not entirely the case, there are plenty of Asian men that may be interested in a beautiful, stunning woman like yourself but they just do not have the courage at that moment to act on it. Whether it's because he could be shy or just have the fear that you may reject him, he could be interested in you. The only real way to know for sure is to find out for yourself. Here are a few ways on how to approach an Asian man and get his attention.
Smiling and saying 'Hi'. This is one of the easiest ways to get someone's attention and get them to notice you. The reason is not everyone does it, and it separates you from other people as having good manners and being respectful. This is a great ice breaker especially if you or him are nervous or shy.
Saying their name. When you talk to someone and you say their name in conversation, it makes that person feel important that you took the time to notice and remember their name. You'd be surprised by the reactions you get from people who take the time to say their name after you say good morning or thank you.
Ask open-ended questions. When you ask him a question, make sure you ask a question that does not have a yes or no response. The purpose of this is to break the ice and engage him in conversation. You can say something like 'What kind of music do you listen to' or 'What kind of movies do you like to watch' then go from there.
Take an interest in your similar interests. Talk about things that you like to do on your free time or things that he likes to do on his free time. Explore each others' interests and who knows, you can possibly plan on hanging out together.
Exchange phone numbers. When you're getting to know someone initially, do not tell that person everything about yourself on the first try. That's what dating is for. Just offer bits and pieces of fun, interesting things about yourself then exchange numbers so you can talk later then hopefully you'll get a chance to meet up later.
Don't assume. No one is perfect and not every person you talk to is the same as the previous guy so do your best to get to know each person on an individual basis.
Be yourself and have fun!!! :)
Hopefully with some of these tips, you should be able to build some confidence and take a chance to explore something fun and new. Everything is hard at first but the more you do it, the easier it will get. With that said, I challenge YOU to initiate at least three conversations with three different Asian men you like in person. Feel free to message me on Facebook or Twitter and let me know how it goes.